Indlela yokuphumelela thethwano ishishini

Ungathanda ukwenza i uthethathethwano lwezorhwebo oluyimpumelelo ? Ukwindawo elungileyo. Ukwenza nayiphi na intengiselwano yorhwebo,uthethathethwano luya kuba yimfuneko ngokupheleleyo. Ngamanye amaxesha olu thethwano luya kubumba iindibano ezisesikweni ezineenjongo ezichazwe ngokucacileyo. Ngokuchaseneyo, ezinye iingxoxo zoshishino ziyinkqubo eqhubekayo. Kunoko, zikhula ngayo nayiphi na indlela efanelekileyo. eyona ifanelekileyo ihlangabezana neenjongo zorhwebo zamaqela.

Ukuba ujonge ukuphumelela njengengcali yeshishini, izakhono eziqinileyo zothethathethwano ziya kuba yimfuneko. Ngothethathethwano oluyimpumelelo lweshishini, unokuqalisa ukuvelisa ingeniso eninzi, kunye neengeniso ezingcono. Kwelinye icala, ukuba uyasilela ukuthethathethana ngokufanelekileyo nangokuzithemba, ezi njongo ziya kulibaziseka kakhulu. Abaxoxisi abaphumeleleyo kwishishini basebenzisa isethi yezakhono ezithile.

Inqaku eliza kufundwa: Iintlobo zentengiso ye-intanethi 

Kule post yebhlog, Finance de Demain ichaza ukuba njani ube yingcaphephe kuthethathethwano lwezorhwebo. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba uqale, nantsi indlela yokwakha i Isicwangciso sokwenza ishishini kwi-intanethi. Masihambe !!

🌻 Yintoni uthethathethwano ngeshishini?

Une uthethathethwano kwezorhwebo, kufana nomdlalo wepoker phakathi kweenkampani ezimbini. Wonke umntu unamakhadi akhe esandleni kwaye uzama ukufumana eyona nto ingcono. Ngokuchanekileyo, ihlala isenzeka malunga netafile, kunye nabameli beenkampani ezimbini zijongene. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, unomthengisi ofuna ukufumana isivumelwano esihle. Kwelinye icala, umthengi ofuna ukuba neyona mveliso ilungileyo okanye inkonzo ngexabiso eliphantsi.

Into yile, akukho mntu ufuna ukubonisa onke amakhadi abo ngaxeshanye. Yinto eqhubekayo emva naphambili: siyacebisa, siyaphikisa, siyathethana. Kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba ungayityhala nini i-advanteji yakho kunye nexesha lokwenza iminyinyiva. Kwaye ayiloxabiso kuphela elisemngciphekweni Sikwathethathethana namaxesha okuhanjiswa, imigaqo yentlawulo, iziqinisekiso, kunye nezinye iinkcukacha ezininzi zekhontrakthi. Inqaku ngalinye linokuthi thaca izikali.

Ekugqibeleni, uthethathethwano oluhle kuxa omabini amaqela emka enelisekile. Okulungileyo kukufumana indawo efanayo apho wonke umntu azuza kancinci. Kodwa musa ukukhohliswa, kusoloko kukho ukuxinana emoyeni!

🌻 Yintoni ongamele uyenze kwingxoxo yeshishini

Ah, iimpazamo zokuphepha kwiingxoxo zorhwebo? Kukho ezimbalwa ezinokukukhathaza ngokwenene. Makhe ndikuxelele ngayo. Okokuqala, akufuneki ufike nezandla zakho epokothweni. Ukubonisa ungalungiselelanga kufana nokuntywila esibhakabhakeni ngaphandle kokujonga izixhobo zakho. Uza kukrazula, ngokuqinisekileyo. Yazi imveliso yakho, imarike yakho, kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke, fumana malunga noqhagamshelwano lwakho.

Emva koko kukho umgibe we-ego enkulu. Abanye bafika “kwimowudiNdingukumkani, uya kuyenza into endiyithethayo“. Umbono ombi. Ijolise ngokuthe ngqo kwelinye iqela, kwaye unokuthi ndlela-ntle kuthethathethwano olwakhayo. Akufanele udlale i-poker yexoki. Ukuxoka okanye ukuzibaxa izinto kusenokubonakala kububulumko ngelo xesha, kodwa kuzisa umva ekuhambeni kwexesha. Ukuthembela, xa kwaphukile, kufile.

Enye into omele uyiphephe: ukuhlala ubambekile kwizikhundla zakho. Ukuba awukakulungeli ukulalanisa, ungahlala ekhaya. Uthethathethwano lutshintshiselwano, hayi intetho eyodwa. Kwaye ke kukho abo baphulukana nokuphola kwabo. Bacaphuka, baphakamise amazwi abo, bade bathukise nelinye iqela. Isiphumo ? Umoya obolileyo kunye nothethathethwano olungenasiphelo.

Ekugqibeleni, akufanele uzihoye iinkcukacha zekhontrakthi. Abanye bangxamele ukugqiba kwelokuba batsiba imigca emincinane. Kwaye bam, bagqibela benamagatya angekho ngqiqweni abangazange bawabone nakuza.

🌻 Yintoni omawuyenze xa uthethathethwano

Okokuqala, phulaphula. Ngokwenene. Abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba uthethathethwano, kukuthetha nje. Kodwa eneneni, kufuneka uphulaphule. Qonda eyona nto ifunwa ngomnye umntu, kungekuphela nje into ayithethayo. Emva koko buza imibuzo. Ikuvumela ukuba umbe nzulu, ukuqonda ngcono iimfuno zomnye. Okukhona usazi, kokukhona ubamba amakhadi amaninzi.

Yiba bhetyebhetye. Ukuba nesicwangciso kulungile, kodwa kufuneka ukwazi ukuziqhelanisa. Ukuba ubona ukuvulwa, yibambe. Ungalibazisi ukuthatha ikhefu. Ikuvumela ukuba ucinge, uzole xa izinto ziba shushu, okanye udibane neqela lakho. Sebenzisa ukuthula ukuze uzuze. Emva kokuba wenze isithembiso, vala umlomo. Vumela omnye umntu aphendule. Ngokufuthi, ukuthula kuqhubela omnye ekubeni athethe aze avume.

Khangela i-win-win. Cebisa izisombululo apho wonke umntu aphumelele. Idala umoya iyakhuthaza kwaye iququzelele isivumelwano. Hlala ubuchwephesha, nokuba izinto zibambeke. Zola, yiba nentlonipho. Inokwenza umahluko phakathi kokungaphumeleli kunye nesivumelwano somzuzu wokugqibela. Kwaye ungalibali ukuphindaphinda rhoqo. Iphepha ukungaqondani kwaye ibonisa ukuba unomdla.

🌻 IziCwangciso ezi-6 eziPhambili zokuThetha iShishini

Yiza, ndiza kukhupha izicwangciso ezi-6 eziphumeleleyo kwiingxoxo zorhwebo. Hlala apho, siza kungena kwiinkcukacha.

1. Ukulungiselela sisiseko sayo yonke into

Ngeliphandle, ukuba awuyihoyi le nto, unokuhlala ekhaya. Kuya kufuneka uyazi ifayile yakho njengomva wesandla sakho. Ithetha ntoni le nto? Ewe, kufuneka ulawule iimveliso zakho, amaxabiso akho, imida yakho. Kodwa akuphelelanga apho. Fumanisa ngocoselelo malunga nomngeneleli wakho. Ngubani ? Ziziphi iimfuno zakhe? Imiqobo yayo? Okukhona usazi, kokukhona unamandla okuxhamla.

Kwaye ke, lungiselela iimeko ezahlukeneyo. Yiba nomfanekiso-ngqondweni wenkcaso enokwenziwa kuwe kwaye ulungiselele iimpendulo zakho. Kufana nechess, kufuneka usoloko uhamba phambili.

2. Ukuphulaphula ngokukhutheleyo, isixhobo sakho esiyimfihlo

Kuvakala ukuba bubudenge, kodwa ngokwenene ukumamela yitalente enqabileyo. Vumela omnye umntu athethe, buza imibuzo ukuze wembe nzulu. Awukho ukuze unike i-monologue, kodwa ukuqonda ukuba yintoni enye umntu ayifunayo ngokwenene. Kwaye xa ndithi mamela, hayi nje amazwi. Qwalasela ulwimi lomzimba, ithoni yelizwi. Inokukunika ulwazi oluxabisekileyo malunga noko omnye umntu akucingayo ngokwenene, ngaphaya koko bakuthethayo.

3. Ukuguquguquka, okanye ubugcisa bokudanisa itango

Kuthethathethwano, kufuneka wazi indlela ye-waltz. Unesicwangciso, kulungile. Kodwa ukuba ubambelele kuyo njengembaza etyeni, umbi. Omnye wenza isindululo esingalindelekanga? Ycinge. Ayihambelani nesicwangciso sakho sokuqala kodwa inokuba nomdla? Ukulungelelanisa. Ifana nebhola ekhatywayo. Unokuba namaqhinga abalaseleyo emhlabeni, ukuba awuyazi indlela yokuziqhelanisa nomdlalo womchasi wakho, ugqibile.

4. Win-win, okanye indlela yokwenza wonke umntu onwabe

Ewe, ndiyazi, ivakala ngathi yibhere enenkathalo. Kodwa ndikholelwe, ukukhangela isisombululo apho wonke umntu ophumeleleyo uhlala esona sicwangciso silungileyo kwixesha elide. Ingcamango kukuba ungaboni uthethathethwano njengedabi, kodwa njengentsebenziswano. Zama ukuqonda umdla wabanye, hayi nje izikhundla zabo. Ukuba ufumana indlela yokwanelisa iimfuno zakhe ngelixa ufezekisa iinjongo zakho, uphumelele.

5. Ulawulo lwexesha, umhlobo wakho obalaseleyo

Ixesha yimali, njengoko besitsho. Kuthethwano, sisixhobo ngokuqinisekileyo. Yisebenzise ngokwenzuzo yakho. Ukuba awungxamanga, thatha ixesha lakho. Inokubeka uxinzelelo kwelinye iqela. Kodwa lumka, kufuneka wazi ixesha lokukhawulezisa. Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba omnye uzimisele ukwenza isigqibo, tyhalela phambili. Ifana ne-poker, kufuneka wazi ukuba uphakamise nini kwaye ulibazise nini.

6. Ukuzibamba, okanye indlela yokugcina upholile

Isicwangciso sokugqibela, kodwa okungancinci: hlala uzolile, nantoni na eyenzekayo. Uthethathethwano lunokuba luxinezeleko, lunxunguphalise, lucaphukise. Kodwa ukuba ulahlekelwe kukuphola kwakho, ulahlekile nje. Thatha umoya onzulu, uthathe ikhefu ukuba kuyimfuneko. Hlala unobuchule, nokuba omnye umntu uyacaphuka okanye enze izinto ezicaphukisayo. Ngulowo uzigcina ezolile odla ngokuphumelela.