Ungathengisa kanjani ngempumelelo ubuchwepheshe bakho?
Ukuthengisa ubuchwepheshe bomuntu kuyinqubo eqala ngenhloso, isinqumo sokugxila endaweni ethile noma emakethe ngokunikela ngamathalenta, amakhono nolwazi lapho. Akukhona nje ngokukhetha imakethe ethile bese uthi “Ngizoba uchwepheshe kuyo”. Kumayelana nokuthola “kungani” kwakho - lowo mucu phakathi kwalokho okwaziyo ngempela kanye nothando lwakho. Sekukaningi sizwa abantu bethi, “Ngingathengisa kuphela engikholelwa kukho”. Ngakho-ke yini okholelwa kuyo? Ngoba inqubo yokuzakhela uchwepheshe iqala ngokukholelwa ukuthi unekhono entweni kangangoba abanye bazofuna ubuhlakani onabo ukuze bazithuthukise bona noma inhlangano yabo. Nazi izinyathelo zokuchaza, ukusungula nokuthengisa ubuchwepheshe bakho