Indlela yokuthengisa ngempumelelo ubuchule bakho?

Ukuthengisa ubuchule bomntu yinkqubo eqala ngenjongo, isigqibo sokugxila kwi-niche ethile okanye imarike ngokunikela ngeetalente, izakhono kunye nolwazi apho. Ayikokukhetha imarike ethile kwaye uthi “Ndizakuba yingcaphephe kuyo”. Imalunga nokufumana "kutheni" yakho - laa msonto phakathi kweyona nto ugqwesileyo kuyo kunye nothando lwakho. Sisoloko sisiva abantu besithi, “Ndingathengisa kuphela into endikholelwa kuyo”. Ngoko ukholelwa ntoni kuwe? Ngenxa yokuba inkqubo yokuzibeka njengengcali iqala ngokukholelwa ukuba ulungile kwinto ethile abanye baya kufuna ubuchule obo ukuze baphucule bona okanye umbutho wabo. Nanga amanyathelo okuchaza, ukuseka kunye nokuthengisa ubuchule bakho