Ngaba uyafuna ukwenza uthethwano oluyimpumelelo lwezorhwebo? Ukwindawo elungileyo. Ukwenza nayiphi na intengiselwano yeshishini, uthethathethwano luya kuba yimfuneko ngokupheleleyo. Ngamanye amaxesha olu thethwano luya kubumba isivumelwano esisesikweni kunye neenjongo ezichazwe ngokucacileyo. Ngokuchaseneyo, ezinye iingxoxo zorhwebo ziyinkqubo eqhubekayo. Endaweni yoko, zivela ngendlela efanele iinjongo zoshishino lwamaqela.
Ukuthengisa ubuchule bomntu yinkqubo eqala ngenjongo, isigqibo sokugxila kwi-niche ethile okanye imarike ngokunikela ngeetalente, izakhono kunye nolwazi apho. Ayikokukhetha imarike ethile kwaye uthi “Ndizakuba yingcaphephe kuyo”. Imalunga nokufumana "kutheni" yakho - laa msonto phakathi kweyona nto ugqwesileyo kuyo kunye nothando lwakho. Sisoloko sisiva abantu besithi, “Ndingathengisa kuphela into endikholelwa kuyo”. Ngoko ukholelwa ntoni kuwe? Ngenxa yokuba inkqubo yokuzibeka njengengcali iqala ngokukholelwa ukuba ulungile kwinto ethile abanye baya kufuna ubuchule obo ukuze baphucule bona okanye umbutho wabo. Nanga amanyathelo okuchaza, ukuseka kunye nokuthengisa ubuchule bakho